Everything "Wrong" with How Boys Treat Girls

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I have recently  been tuning in to the new hit YouTube show BK Chat. If you haven't seen it I'll leave a link below but basically a group of boys and girls sit and talk about different topics such as sidechicks, cheating and plastic surgery. Take a look the latest episode and you'll soon see why this blog post had to be made. 

Yup. 

These boys are representing the male race. I'm so sorry. After watching these videos I realised there is a lot wrong with how boys treat girls. But don't worry because I am here to help okay, Auntie Bimpe has got your back. Here is Everything "Wrong" with How Boys Treat Girls. Also girls, don't think you're getting off the hook. I'm coming for you in the next blog post. 

1. Double Standards 

So to all these boys that are doing double standards and calling girls that have had sex hoes, while they have entered half the population of England and Nigeria combined, evaporate. Seriously, why are boys so praised for putting themselves into everything with a heartbeat like... Can you find a seat? Oh, and that's not the end of it because these same boys that are having sex like it's part of their daily routine will be saying I would never wife a girl that's slept with bare guys. Excuse me, your bags, pack them and leave. Then there's the boys who say that a girl's dress is too short or her top is too low cut so she must be a hoe. Right because clothing let's us know how many people someone has slept with. Olodo. Idiot. Is it your legs that is showing? Is it your cleavage that is showing? No? Okay then move your raggedy self along. These are the girls that you will be chasing in the club yet dissing at school. Let girls be confident!

2. Looks Got Them Confused

Now this next thing that boys do confuses me to the point where I'm about to become a scientist and do a study. These foolish boys will be saying rubbish like 'I don't like girls who wear too much makeup' or 'I want a natural women who doesn't get plastic surgery because if they do they're insecure.' Where do we start? Firstly, these boys will be the first to call a girl unattractive when she doesn't look like the typical beauty standard. These boys and their friends will have fun laughing at girls that puberty is still working on and go for the girls that fit the beauty standard all while telling girls they prefer them without makeup. You're lying to yourself. Not everyone has long European hair, small noses, light skin, coloured eyes or are skinny with high cheekbones. You ridicule girls that don't fit the beauty standards and then tell them what you like. Consider this though, no-one needs your opinion. Secondly when a girl wants a bigger butt/boobs via plastic surgery they're fake, but girls with flat bums and small boobs are not sexy enough for you. So, you make fun of someone for not having curves but wonder why they may be insecure? Boy, if you don't sit yourself down somewhere I will have to hurt you. While I don't condone plastic surgery, not everyone that gets it is insecure. Sometimes girls just want a bigger butt, lips, boobs, whatever. It's not your place to tell them what they are and how you'd like them to look.

3. Living in the Past

Here is something that I have to say to those boys who live in 1845 still and believe that girls will be cooking and cleaning for you. You gon' starve and your house gon' be dirty. It's 2016 my friend, and you'll be lucky to find a girl that will date your backwards self let alone be coming home from their job and cooking for you everyday. This woman that has decided to be with you is probably going to be tired from working at her job so remove the assumption that your wife or girlfriend will be cooking for you everyday. I'm not saying that this girl should/will never cook for you but don't say ignorant things like 'women belong in the kitchen' because women in 2016 don't play and we may just have to utilise the kitchen utensils. 

4. Alpha Males.

This is for the boys who are just plain idiotic. For all them boys who want look cool in front of their friends but instead end up looking like Donald Trump's bald patch. To the boys who want to talk a big game in front of their friends and then act a completely different way when they leave, disperse. Like, do you know how dumb you look right now? You'll be acting like a gentlemen when it's just you and one girl and then the boys come and suddenly your testosterone levels start raising. Just calm down and be yourself. Then there's the alpha males who think being a 'man' means they have to be aggressive and treat women with disrespect. You can't be rude to girls when they turn you down because your ego is hurt and you don't have the right to diss girls to get a laugh from your mates. If you wolf whistle and harass girls, think that your 'manliness' gives you access to every women or talk disrespectfully about girls who are confident in their own skin you need to fix yourself and stop relying on girls to stroke your ego because this is the face we'll make:

5. Just Plain Dumb.

Next up we have them unintelligent boys who find periods disgusting. Are you 5? What is 'disgusting' about a period? I mean sure, blood and vagina's are involved but do you really have to behave as if a girl is diseased when she's on hers. It's a period, get over it! Your mum has one, your sister has one, your daughters will have one and you need to stop making yourself look like a complete fool talking about 'That's so nasty' or 'That's probably why you're so cranky.' These are probably the same boys who think breastfeeding is disgusting. Really? You do know babies need breast milk to survive! The over-sexualisation of boobs has stopped silly boys understanding they are not there to be stared at or touched but are a means of feeding our children. So don't act grossed out when you see someone breastfeeding because your mother breastfed you and every women deserves respect and praise for literally keeping their child alive with their milk. If you don't give them respect we'll be making this face and silently judging you:

6. Words of Stupidity

Finally for those who happen to be lost, try not saying these things to women:

• How many guys have you slept with?
• Have you gained weight?
• You're acting like a bi***!
• Are you going to eat all that food? That's a lot.
• You don't understand, it's a guy thing.
• I don't need to learn to cook. I'll just marry someone who can.
• Are you on your period?
• Girls are always so emotional!
• You look tired? Are you sick?
• Every guy is going to cheat, it's inevitable. 

Just no.

But anyway, that's it! Make sure to send this to all boys who are in dire need of some help from the Lord to fix their treacherous ways. We can only do so much. This doesn't apply to all boys by the way. But if you do come into contact with a boy who shows any symptoms of behaving in these ways run for your life! Peace!